It has been slightly over a month since Jonathan started his new school. We have to switch school as he was not able to keep up with the pace in the previous school. In the new school, Jonathan has a dedicated one on one teacher, Jessie who has been assigned to him full time. So far, he seems to be enjoying school.
We also started medication on Jonathan to help him to focus. He seems to be able to sustain a longer attention span. But we noticed that the medication has effects on his emotions, resulting to regular emotional outbursts specially when he does not get the things he want. He is also taking melatonin at night to enable him to get a good night rest.
It has been a really long journey with Jonathan. Sometimes, it feels like a neverending uphill battle with no breaks. Deep down, our biggest fear is that Jonathan will never be independent. Nichlas has been really patient in trying to find him friends and get him to be sociable. Sometimes I see the despair in Nicke’s eyes as he sees Jonathan sinking more and more into his own little world. It breaks our hearts and at times, we feel really helpless. There really seems little we can do to help our precious little boy.
Nevertheless, we cannot give up but will keep trying to help him. We cannot hope that he will one day come out of his own little world but can only hope that he can cope in our world.
I think Jonathan is the luckiest boy around with parents like you!
my prayers are with you. I can really feel both your love for him & that’s so beautiful and inspiring. **Big Hug**
That has really touch me…..you are very wise Skyni….I am learning so much from your words.. Keep the faith….the best is yet to come..
I am so happy I met you.
Hugs Vernetta…
NicKE and you have been such wonderful parents to Jonathan and Linn. I sometimes wonder if I will ever be as strong as both of you. Jonathan is not just a precious gift to you but to us as well. Through him, we learn the power of giving and loving unconditionally. Hugs and kisses to Jonathan and we can’t wait to see him in November. Stay strong. Love, yenteng, adrian, evan and kyle.
Prayers are with him that he will learn to be happy in our world and that everyone arounds him gives him a chance too. I know it seems bleak to you now and that you will constantly worry about how you can even cut the cord given his condition … you can only do your best and know that he does have a sister who loves him much! Also Aunts and Uncles and cousins all around…