My daughter is 19 today. Every year, I wondered the same time about how time flies and in the blink of the eye, she is now 19, going to college and starting another new adventure. She is no longer the baby I held in my arms 19 years ago in the hospital bed.
It has definitely been an experience watching her grow to the young woman she is today. I tried to adopt some of my own tiger mom’s tactics but sadly, I failed to execute them well. I can only hope that she will learn and figure it out by herself. Nicke and I will watch her continue her life adventures, enjoy the ups, navigate herself through life changes and brace the challenges. We will be here for her when she needs us.
Here’s a review of the 18.0 version of Linn? She knows what she likes and is stubbornly protective at times. She is loyal, kind and generous with her friends. I am proud of how she is true to herself, pursuing things that she enjoys and likes. Like her mother, she does not often divulge what she really thinks and feel. Maybe that is something that I could have done better. The communication function definitely needs more scrutiny. Of course there are other traits that are still ‘work in progress’ but we hope that she will learn along the way, discover more hidden traits, and we will keep seeing some new versions and upgrades.
The 19.0 version will definitely be filled with excitement as she starts college life outside her comfort zone. She will be staying in a new city 2 hours away from us, will meet new friends, will need to take care of her own apartment, manage her own time, finances, meals and be completely independent. She will not have her parents banging on her door to wake her up in the morning, tell her to stop eating junk food, and driving her around. We will definitely miss her very very much at home but will be cheering for her.
For her 19th birthday, my wish is that she will find herself in the best way and be happy. One can only be happy doing things that are enjoyable. Go Linn! That is my girl.
We love you.













































































































































